Queens Jewish Link
Connecting the Queens Jewish Community What’s the difference between a fragile and solid relationship? Do you know? Believe it or not,...
One crisp, beautiful…September morning.
New York City was quiet, but oh so very loud.
You courageously try to get your point or views across to him, and he responds with mounting irritation. She answers you politely at first, but you feel entirely misunderstood. Why is communication so darn hard, you ask yourself?
Question: Do you have a sense of self? What do you truly want in this life, and who do you ultimately trust? Are you doing what you wish to do or what you believe you are supposed to do? Do you agree with ideas because others do and are told it is good to do so?
Okay, admit it. You have literally been scrolling on your phone for hours on end. You’re binge-watching shows yet again. Do you feel drained, overwhelmed by work, life, or your relationships?
Has your closest friend or partner ever exhibited aggressive or unpleasant behavior? When you first met him, he was so tender; she was so kind. Now, after a time, you feel neglected or unappreciated.
Do you seem to be having the same scuffle and skirmish day in, day out? He feels controlled when you are simply trying to help or have your needs met. She ends up feeling rejected and abandoned.
