Back in March, as the reality of the lockdown set in, a caller to the Shalom Task Force (STF) hotline shared her fears about being trapped with her husband. After safety planning with her, we encouraged her to call back. She explained that she didn’t know if she could, in the presence of her abusive partner. Throughout the past several months, the increase of family abuse has surfaced as the pandemic within the pandemic. Leaving some more vulnerable than ever, and those who were unsafe calling a hotline were finding alternate ways to reach out for help. “I was presenting on a webinar with a panel of other professionals, when one participant used the private chat feature to reach out to me for help,” recounts Dr. Shoshannah Frydman, Executive Director of Shalom Task Force. “This highlighted the need to offer expanded means to reach out.”

This week’s parshah begins with the verse, “Behold, I set before you today blessings and curses” (D’varim 11:26). Moshe Rabbeinu was conveying a simple yet profound message to our ancestors. Life is filled with choices and there are blessings and curses. If you follow in the way of Hashem, blessing awaits. If you ignore your spiritual responsibilities and engage in negative behaviors, there will be consequences. Each and every day, these two paths are in front of us and we must choose which one to travel.

On the eve of Tish’ah B’Av, as many in our community were preparing for the solemn day ahead, the Fazilov family of Kew Gardens Hills was dealt a terrifying ordeal. Video from a home surveillance system depicts a bearded African American man entering the family home just off 71st Avenue and 137th Street as if it was his own. Clad in a gray sweatshirt, jeans, and a tan beanie, the man brazenly attempted to rob the dwelling as the homeowner was present.