In this week’s parshah, Yosef revealed himself to his brothers after not seeing them for 22 years. The pasuk states: “VaYomer Yosef el echav: Ani Yosef; ha’od avi chai? V’lo yachlu echav laanos oso, ki nivhalu mi’panav – And Yosef said to his brothers, ‘I am Yosef. Is my father still alive?’ But his brothers could not answer him because they were left disconcerted before him” (B’reishis 45:3).
The Midrash comments on this with words that seem designed to terrify: “Woe to us from the day of judgment, woe to us from the day of rebuke.” The Beis HaLevi tells us that Yosef’s rebuke: “Is my father still alive?” wasn’t meant literally, because Yehudah had already told Yosef that Yaakov was alive. Rather, his rebuke was, “Was my father not alive when you sold me, you were not worried about his health, so why now all of the sudden are you worried about Binyamin?” The brothers had nothing to say to him. The Midrash (B’reishis Rabbah 93:10) states that Yosef was the youngest of the Sh’vatim and the brothers could not withstand his rebuke, so certainly when Hashem will bring a person to justice at the end of days, he will not be able to withstand His rebuke.
The lesson for us is that we often contradict ourselves. We claim we have no time to learn Torah, yet somehow, we find a wealth of time to chat about mundane matters. We claim we have no money for tz’dakah, yet when vacation time comes, we suddenly have all sorts of resources. We should strive to equally match all our energy and resources that we channel to our material existence to the time, energy, and resources in spiritual achievements.
List of People Who Need a r’fuah sh’leimah (a complete recovery)
Please recite Psalms 20, 30, 88, 121, and 130.
Michael Rachamim ben Mazal
Yosef Yosi ben Simchah
Chaim Avraham ben Shifrah Zissel
Chaim ben Adinah Eidel
Matan ben Devorah
Noam ben Adi
Moshe Shlomo ben Orah Sarah
Tinok ben Chavah Michal
Omer ben Tali
Mazal bas Rivkah
Odelya bas Mahbubeh Yocheved
Zhenya bas Zoya
Esther Hadassah bas Devorah
Mitali Naomi bas Gilah Farcha
Zoya bas Rachel Raya
Rachel bas Leah
Mazal bas Rachel
Israeli Soldiers (Please recite Psalms 25, 26, 46, 83, 142.)
Avraham Yaakov ben Devorah
Binyamin Shlomo Yitzchak ben Rivkah Avivah
Shmuel ben Rachel
Avraham Yitzchak ben Chayah Sara
Aharon Yehudah ben Rivkah Zlata
Chaim Yair ben Miriam Devorah
Yitzchak ben Chanah Brachah
Levi Yitzchak ben Dinah Miriam
Meir Moshe ben Gittel
Yehoshua Elyakim Getzel ben Devorah
Naftali ben Devorah Sharon
Yisrael Mordechai ben Chanah Gittel
Shmayah ben Chanah Zelda
Avraham ben Ilanah Tovah
Yehudah Chaim ben Mina Chayah
Ohr Moshe ben Alizah
Elya Akiva ben Chavah Leah
Yisrael Yehudah ben Elisheva Rachel
Baruch Tzvi ben Shoshanah Raizel
Meir Simchah ben Adinah
Aharon Mordechai ben Kresel Baila
Avraham Mordechai ben Tiferes
Eliyahu ben Chayah Tamar
Yitzchak Issac ben Freida
Shlomo Zalman ben Tziporah Alitah
Netanel Meir ben Esther
Tuvia Nissim ben Yehudis
Yonah ben Tziporah
Yehudah Aharon ben Tziviah
Yehudah ben Nurit
Daniel ben Nurit
Roy ben Ronit
Amit ben Janet
Danny ben Chavah
Elya ben Merav
Dvir ben Granit
Avihu ben Anat
Yosef Chaim ben Yael
Chagai Naftali ben Esther Avigayil
Nesanel Moshe ben Yocheved
Neriah ben Rivkah
Eitan ben Sarah
Nir ben Limor
Aviv Birka ben Pleia
List of Remaining Hostages
Tamir ben Yael (Adar)
Edan ben Yael (Alexander)
Matan ben Anat (Angrest)
Noa bat Liora (Argamani)
Karina bat Eerena (Ariev)
Uriel ben Naomi (Baruch)
Ohad ben Esther (Ben-Ami)
Ron ben Chanah (Benjamin)
Agam bat Meirav (Berger)
Gali ben Tamar (Berman)
Ziv ben Tamar (Berman)
Kfir ben Shiri (Bibas)
Yarden ben Peninah (Bibas)
Shiri bat Margit (Bibas)
Ariel ben Shiri (Bibas)
Elkanah ben Ruchamah
Rom Noah ben Tamar
Amit Esther Chayah bat Ilanah
Itay ben Chagit (Chen)
Eliya ben Sigalit (Cohen)
Nimrod ben Vicky (Cohen)
Amiram ben Sarah (Cooper)
Alexander ben Nina
Ori ben Inav (Danino)
Evyatar ben Yasmin (David)
Sagui ben Naamit (Dekel-Chen)
Liri bat Shirah (Elbag)
Itzhak ben Chanah (Elgarat)
Carmel bat Kineret (Gat)
Yitzchak ben Gilah (Gelerenter)
Daniella bat Orly (Gilboa)
Guy ben Meirav (Gilboa-Dalal)
Hersh ben Perel Chana
Romi bat Meirav (Gonen)
Ran ben Tali (Gvili)
Gad ben Sarah (Haggai)
Louis ben Nurah (Har)
Maxim ben Tella (Herkin)
Yair ben Rut Eedit (Horn)
Eitan ben Rut Eedit (Horn)
Tsachi ben Devorah (Idan)
Ofer ben Kochavah (Kalderon)
Segev ben Galit (Kalfon)
Elad ben Chanah (Katzir)
David ben Sylvia (Konio)
Ariel ben Sylvia (Konio)
Andrey ben Yavgena (Kozlov)
Bar Avraham ben Julia
Or ben Geulah (Levy)
Naama bat Ayelet (Levy)
Elyakim Shlomo ben Avishag
Oded ben Bilhah (Lifshitz)
Alexander ben Oksana
Shlomo ben Marcel (Mansour)
Fernando Shimon ben Tanya
Almog ben Orit (Meir-Jan)
Yoram ben Miriam (Metzger)
Omri ben Veronica Esther
Eitan Avraham ben Efrat (Mor)
Gadi Moshe ben Sarah (Mosez)
Abraham Gliad ben Emunah
Omer Maksim Ben Orna Esther
Tamir ben Cherut (Nimrod)
Michel ben Solomira
Yosef Chaim ben Miriam
Alon ben Idit (Ohel)
Dror ben Dorit (Or)
Avinathan ben Ditza Tirtza (Or)
Daniel Shimon ben Sharon
Chaim ben Nechamah (Peri)
Nadav ben Chanah (Popplewell)
Lior ben Michal (Rudaeff)
Almog ben Nira (Sarusi)
Eliyahu ben Chanah (Sharabi)
Yosef ben Chanah (Sharabi)
Omer ben Sheli (Shem Tov)
Tal ben Nitza (Shoham)
Idan ben Dalit (Shtivi)
Shmuel ben Gladys (Siegel)
Doron bat Sarah (Steinbrecher)
Itai ben Irit (Svirsky)
Alexander (Sasha) ben Ilena (Trupanob)
Judith bat Marilyn (Weinstein)
Ilan Shlomo ben Miriam (Weiss)
Omer ben Niva (Wenkert)
Yair ben Flor (Yaakov)
Chanan ben Vered (Yablonka)
Yagev ben Esther (Buchshtab )
Ohad ben Keren (Yahalomi)
Dolev ben Yael (Yahud)
Arbel bat Yael (Yahud)
Eden bat Shirit (Yerushalmi)
Matan ben Einav (Zangauker)
Shlomi ben Rozita Ira (Ziv)
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