Some 36 years ago, my husband and I and two children were living in a one-bedroom apartment in the NY area. We were cramped for space; very unhappy for lack of friends; and resigned to never being able to afford a home of our own. One Shabbos afternoon, we saw an ad in a Jewish newspaper about a community in Elizabeth, NJ-which they called “the secret jewel in the crown” of current Jewish neighborhoods. They stated that the homes there were very affordable- relative to other communities- and that the city had all the Jewish amenities that a family could ask for. We could not believe that such a place existed, and we made immediate plans to spend a Shabbos in Elizabeth and see for ourselves. Indeed, it was all true, and if anything, the ad underestimated how warm and welcoming the community was. In addition, it features a beautiful out-of-town atmosphere while being close (by car, local bus or train) to Manhattan, Brooklyn, and North/Central NJ. Our dream was realized: We were able to buy a home in the Elmora section of Elizabeth, which we have lived in for over three decades.