Don’t be fooled into thinking your estate plan is foolproof just because you used a lawyer or an online template. The idea of having a “simple” estate is a dangerous myth. A signed document isn’t the same thing as a solid plan, and even small mistakes can have devastating consequences for your loved ones. Take these real-life examples:
A father’s estate plan for his eight children was torn apart by a legal battle because his lawyer forgot to officially put a piece of land into the trust.
A man who left everything to his second wife, assuming she would take care of his daughter from a previous marriage, was let down when his wife kept everything for herself and cut off his daughter.
A woman who used an online template accidentally created a trust governed by the laws of a state she’d never lived in, leading to a messy, expensive court battle after she passed away.
These stories show how traditional estate planning can fail when it’s treated as a one-time transaction. An estate plan is more than just a stack of papers. It’s a thorough and comprehensive approach that creates a complete inventory of your assets, ensures they’re designated in the right way, ensures your wishes are legally protected and clearly stated, considers your family’s unique dynamics to prevent conflict and provides ongoing support to keep your plan up-to-date as your life changes.
Ultimately, estate planning isn’t just about you; it’s about making sure your loved ones are cared for after you’re gone. A true plan provides them with security and support, rather than leaving them to face expensive court battles and emotional turmoil.
Consult a professional who has your best interests in mind, not someone who only focuses on after death documents. Estate Planning is also about what happens while you’re still living. Learn the best way to protect yourself and your family while you’re still living and after you’re gone, and keep everyone out of court and conflict. Call today: 718.514.7575 | 732.333.1854
Monet Binder, Esq., has her practice in Queens, dedicated to protecting families, their legacies, and values. All halachic documents are approved by the Bais Havaad Halacha Center in Lakewood, under the direction of Rabbi Dovid Grossman and the guidance of Harav Shmuel Kaminetsky, shlita, as well as other leading halachic authorities. To learn more about how a power of attorney can help you, you can send her an email at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or call 718-514-7575.
