Slice of Life

The Chayal Who Ate On Yom Kippur

Between the endless headlines, the political noise, and the heavy weight of the war, I am always...

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Osot Chayil, an organization that supports chareidi women whose family members have joined the army, continues to encourage those who turn to it. This week, they invited me to join them for a Day of Appreciation with Michal Herzog, wife of President Isaac Herzog.

Masa Kumta (Beret Journey) is the march IDF combat soldiers complete before receiving their brigade’s unique beret in a ceremony that marks their readiness for battle. The event is filled with pride, music, and celebration. But for participants in the Gedolim B’Madim (Special in Uniform) program, it represents something deeper: a declaration of belonging.

For many mothers and wives of combat soldiers, sleepless nights and constant worry are their companions. For chareidi women in this position, it is often spoken in isolation. As the majority of chareidim do not serve, these families often feel like outliers in their communities, alone and unsupported. This was the experience of Chavy Erenfeld, a resident of Ramat Beit Shemesh and mother of four—until she decided to do something about it.

The chasan broke the glass, and the guests screamed “Mazal Tov!” While the simchah was palpable, there was not a dry eye in the hall. This was no regular wedding. It was special in more ways than one. The chasan and kallah had special needs, and they were building a bayis ne’eman b’Yisrael!

When Hillel Manne moved to Israel in 1996, the first thing he did was plant a vineyard. Having grown up in California, he had studied agriculture at the University of California, Davis, before bringing his expertise to Israel.